What is "wealthy?" What is a "fair share?"
I'm not wealthy, but I pay 2-2.5 times the average federal effective rate. I pay double-digit multiples of the average actual federal tax payment. I use very little government services relative to the general public.
Am I paying my "fair share?"
Why should "feeling it" be used as a way to logical way to enact tax policy?
"Feeling it" is a decent subjective measure because the marginal utility of a dollar reduces the more money you have. For example, someone living paycheck to paycheck will be impacted by a 5% increase in taxes than you or I would. As such, it only makes sense to contribute more.
You also take advantage of Government services more than you act like you do. Sure, you're probably taking advantage of direct benefit programs less than the poor but you also benefit more from roads, education, property protections, FDIC insurance, etc etc (indirectly) than you probably think you do. We're all in this together.
Without getting into what an exact % fair share is, fair share to me is things like capital gains being taxed as income (why should money you didn't work for be taxed less?) and reverting the pass through income back to where it was pre-Trump.
I know you have specific objections to the AMT but I'm not sure I've ever heard what they were and, as I'm not subject to it myself, am not intimately familiar with how it works. My understanding is that it basically sets a floor for how much you'll pay in taxes (if you otherwise would have had a lower burden because of write-offs and the like). What's unreasonable about that (or incorrect with my understanding)?