Hey guys . Believe it or not I have gotten some Hell of a good response on here about some questions. I have also gotten some really that is so weird.
That being said I have a serious question I have no answer but I want to do the right thing.
I have a friend whose husband left her high and dry with two kids for another much younger woman. The kids actually knew the father was running around months before the mom. Imagine that.
Anyway the question is originally the father walked out telling the wife he wanted nothing from her or the marriage which included the debt , responsibilities and children.
So lady had lawyer draw up divorce degree which gave her full custody as he made it clear he wanted to pursue his degree without the children anchor.
A year or so later which is now, there has been a change of attitude in that he is encouraging the children to want to leave the mom and move to another state because the grass is much greener with him now.
The grass is really green with the lady, but of course children want parents both father and mother to be together. So dad is trying to sell himself now as the better.
That and the guy posts pictures of the women who broke up the marriage having the kids to comment momma she is so skinny in a bikini as she is 15 years younger never married no children.
What's a good source of help to address these issues as the mom is a super mom and would kill for the kids.
They just say thing about the dad now that she will not respond to as she does not want to use hate and bitterness as a means of discouraging the kids from thinking the dead beat abandoned dad now id the cool dad after leaving his children and wife.
Any hep or ideas to provide her appreciated.
That being said I have a serious question I have no answer but I want to do the right thing.
I have a friend whose husband left her high and dry with two kids for another much younger woman. The kids actually knew the father was running around months before the mom. Imagine that.
Anyway the question is originally the father walked out telling the wife he wanted nothing from her or the marriage which included the debt , responsibilities and children.
So lady had lawyer draw up divorce degree which gave her full custody as he made it clear he wanted to pursue his degree without the children anchor.
A year or so later which is now, there has been a change of attitude in that he is encouraging the children to want to leave the mom and move to another state because the grass is much greener with him now.
The grass is really green with the lady, but of course children want parents both father and mother to be together. So dad is trying to sell himself now as the better.
That and the guy posts pictures of the women who broke up the marriage having the kids to comment momma she is so skinny in a bikini as she is 15 years younger never married no children.
What's a good source of help to address these issues as the mom is a super mom and would kill for the kids.
They just say thing about the dad now that she will not respond to as she does not want to use hate and bitterness as a means of discouraging the kids from thinking the dead beat abandoned dad now id the cool dad after leaving his children and wife.
Any hep or ideas to provide her appreciated.
