so first things first, Id absolutely have a beer with you as well. I think it would be a great conversation, so if you find yourself on the Eastern Shore of MD or in Annapolis, we will make that happen.
Now ... this is going to be mostly anecdotal ....
With your .0042% number Im guessing you referencing people who are "Intersex", and if that is what we were talking about, I dont think anyone would spend any cycles thinking about but unfortunately that is not the case.
Lets agree that those who are painting trans people as all pedophiles are extremists who are spreading hate, BUT lets also agree that the core tenants of Trans ideology, espoused by both extremist and more mild activists, are that Trans-Women are women, biology is "meh", and that there are more than 2 genders. This is what I hear, see, and read from "that" side, and that isnt through a lens of Matt Walsh/Tim Pool/Charlie Kirk/etc ... that is what they believe ... and that is what they
DEMAND I believe. If I dont, then Im a hateful transphobic bigot who is committing acts of violence/genocide. It really sounds that our beliefs are aligned, sooooo welcome to the Transphobic club
I have no doubt that many of those individuals who identify as Trans feel they were born in the wrong bodies. I have said numerous times that my heart goes out to those people. I certainly recognize, acknowledge, and respect their humanity but ... if Im expected to believe that sex and gender are fluid, that men can be women and women can be men ... Im never going to do that. I'll be polite and kind, but if a individual's subjective self worth is dependent on my objective total and complete acceptance of their internal identity belief, ya .... sorry there peaches, but Im not going to do that and if that hurts your feelings, that is a "you" problem, not a "me" problem.
I am then told that that gender dysphoria and transgenderism are two completely different things. That one is a mental disorder and the other is just a thing that you are. Gender Dysphoria is "
a sense of unease that a person may have because of a mismatch between their biological sex and their gender identity" and that being Transgender means "
having a gender identity, or their internal sense of being male, female, or something else, does not match the sex they were assigned at birth."
...
Those are the
same things!
So if people who are transgender ARE suffering from a mental disorder, should we really be "affirming" that? Do we affirm the body image of a person who is suffering from Body Dysmorphia? "Youre right Alice, youre fat as shit, keep on purging! Love is love!" No of course not...
Now do I believe that
all these people who claim to be Transgender have a mental illness? No of course I dont. Society has always had people who dont conform to the norm. There are guys out there who love to dress in black, paint their nails, grow their hair out and dye it black .... does that mean that they are trans? does it mean that they are actually a woman? No, it means that they like Marilyn Manson ... and that right there is my "concern". (actually I dont know if that is true anymore .... is goth still a thing? haha)
We are telling kids, specifically middle school aged kids, that they can change their gender, they were born in the wrong bodies, and that gender is on a "spectrum". We are telling the girl who likes girls, that they may actually be a boy. Maybe they are just lesbian?
In this Time article it shows that within Gen Z the rate of kids identifying as "transgender" is exploding. 1 in 5 (20%) people who claim to be transgender are between the ages of 13-18. How is that possible when compared to previous generations? I will not accept the "Well its more accepted now", because that is shit. Its absolutely more accepted now, soooooooo if "transgender" is something that you are born as, then the number of transgender people should be consistent across all age groups. Its almost like its a social contagion that has influenced the latest generations, specifically Gen Z.
Gen Z young adults are much more likely to report identifying as either trans or nonbinary than other generations.
time.com
And whats more concerning, is that the studies around transgender kids and gender affirming care can at best be classified as "pseudo-science". The rate of people who transitioned their gender as children who then de-transitioned as a adult is a hot button topic. In this article from Reuters (which I think we can agree is bipartisan) shows the rate of de-transition between 1 and 25% ..... thats a pretty big f'n delta. But thats largely irrelevant, because "we" have only been transitioning kids at the rate that "we" are for the last 10 years.
https://www.reuters.com/investigates/special-report/usa-transyouth-outcomes/
Bottom line is that if youre an adult and want to live your life as the opposite sex and if you want to go as far as to mutilate yourself, go ahead ..... but if youre a minor?????? We need more data before we can say, definitively, that is a good idea or not.
And is the GOP playing this up and making a bigger issue of it than it is? .... Maybe .... BUT when presented with specific examples of how this is harmful or how its being exploited by deviants, the "left" just says " Oh that isnt happening" ... yes it is. It may not be happening at the alarming rates that the GOP wants us to believe,
BUT kids are being influenced by BS, making decisions that are permanent, girls are being forced(against their will, and with threats of retaliation) to share bathrooms and locker rooms with men, language is being overhauled, and laws are being written because of hurt feelings (
https://www.michiganreview.com/michigan-hb-4474-is-anti-free-speech-and-anti-constitution/).
Again are these isolated rare incidents that the GOP is using .... probably .... but does the Dems/Left not do the exact same thing? Interactions with police that end in violence or someone being killed are INCREDIBLY rare, but does that prevent the Dems and the Left from trying to convince black and brown communities that there is a klansman behind every badge every 2 to 4 years? 92% of African Americans vote Democrat, if that isnt a monolith ... I dont know what is. Ive read that if the African American demographic votes aligned with other minority races, Republicans would have super majorities in the House, Senate, and Governorships nationwide. So Dems need that voting block.
Sooooooo how is that different? How is that not a "culture war"?
So it really doesnt feel that you and I are all that different when it comes to the Transgender issue. We both dont believe that trans-people are of the sex that they believe they are. We both dont believe biological men (thats a trigger word btw) dont belong in women spaces or women's sports. We both respect the humanity of people ..... the only difference is that youre a smidge nicer about it or at least less willing to call BS than I am.