Not even close to the same thing. What OP went through was way worse. Just don’t understand why people stink their nose is other peoples business unnecessarily.Not sure that’s quite the same thing if you did the crime…
Not even close to the same thing. What OP went through was way worse. Just don’t understand why people stink their nose is other peoples business unnecessarily.Not sure that’s quite the same thing if you did the crime…
No. The “witness” was unreasonable and is an asshole. I’m not saying he should be crucified, but I, like others, hate him for what he did. Complete BS.That really sucks and I empathize with you, but assuming everyone was sincere (witness really believed it was you, cops behaved appropriately, etc) I think there’s no blame anywhere. I absolutely understand your feelings but sounds like it played out reasonably.
Up until I was in the final selection for a gang member who was charged with 2 separate murders 10 days apart and unrelated, I felt pretty good about even GOOD people respecting the law and generally doing the right thing. This was roughly 17 years ago.Eyewitnesses are nearly useless. Humans are really bad at identifying strangers, especially when they were stressed, and especially when the stranger was a different race.
Obviously I wasn’t there and only have the OP’s description to go on, but again if he sincerely believed it was the OP, I absolutely get his anger but in that scenario the witness did the right thing. If he was just making it up or singled the OP out for other reasons, then that’s BS, but his initial description doesn’t suggest that.No. The “witness” was unreasonable and is an asshole. I’m not saying he should be crucified, but I, like others, hate him for what he did. Complete BS.
If you committed a crime, then it might be because somebody wants people who committed a crime to be caught.Not even close to the same thing. What OP went through was way worse. Just don’t understand why people stink their nose is other peoples business unnecessarily.
The cops ? They had a witness statement lolPlease file a complaint against the officers involved. If this was a one time screw up, then nothing will happen. However, a history needs to be established if mistakes continue to be made.
Owning “cam newtonesque” suits is not a prerequisite for being blackWhat did the suit look like? If it was some of that Cam Newtonesque stuff, i could see where you made the dudes eyeballs bleed.
I am not OP, and I think this just needs to happen to you before you will appreciate it. This witness was sure it was him, only to be wrong. You don’t have any problem with that? I could understand better if he said I think it was him.Obviously I wasn’t there and only have your description to go on, but again if he sincerely believed it was you, I absolutely get your anger but in that scenario he did the right thing. If he was just making it up or singled you out for other reasons, then that’s BS, but your initial description doesn’t suggest that.
Wow, that sucks. Glad it worked out OK in the end.I'm walking down the subway steps to get on the train to go home when two cops say "hey you against the wall".. Keep in mind, I'm a bank manager...I have a suit and tie on and I have a bag full of stuff from desk. So at first, I'm thinking "well maybe they think I have drugs" (I'm a young black male, I don't play the race card but it is what it is). BUT the cops walk me upstairs and say "I'm accused of assaulting a man".. It's some guy bleeding from his head but this is what FVKS me up, a "eyewitness" states "he knows for sure it was me".. He pointing at me and everything..it would be one thing if he said "He kind of resembles him or he looks similar".. He straight up said " I saw him assault this man".. So now the West Philly in me comes out and I start snapping.. I'm cussing main man tf out...Now the eyewitness all of a sudden has to leave...Naw, you gonna sit ya ass against the wall until we get this straightened out.. .It's a Philly subway at 8pm and I have a suit and tie on, how the hell you get me confused with anybody?????.. The thing that saved me was when the cops initially stopped me I was on the phone.. I showed the cops I was on the phone for 40mins, how could I assault him? Why would I assault him, I never seen the victim a day in my life.. Eventually I was let go but is it anyway I can press charges or file a complaint about false accusations?? The cops have everyone's info
Appreciate the fact you got to go home on your terms. Things could have turned out a whole lot worse.I'm walking down the subway steps to get on the train to go home when two cops say "hey you against the wall".. Keep in mind, I'm a bank manager...I have a suit and tie on and I have a bag full of stuff from desk. So at first, I'm thinking "well maybe they think I have drugs" (I'm a young black male, I don't play the race card but it is what it is). BUT the cops walk me upstairs and say "I'm accused of assaulting a man".. It's some guy bleeding from his head but this is what FVKS me up, a "eyewitness" states "he knows for sure it was me".. He pointing at me and everything..it would be one thing if he said "He kind of resembles him or he looks similar".. He straight up said " I saw him assault this man".. So now the West Philly in me comes out and I start snapping.. I'm cussing main man tf out...Now the eyewitness all of a sudden has to leave...Naw, you gonna sit ya ass against the wall until we get this straightened out.. .It's a Philly subway at 8pm and I have a suit and tie on, how the hell you get me confused with anybody?????.. The thing that saved me was when the cops initially stopped me I was on the phone.. I showed the cops I was on the phone for 40mins, how could I assault him? Why would I assault him, I never seen the victim a day in my life.. Eventually I was let go but is it anyway I can press charges or file a complaint about false accusations?? The cops have everyone's info
People are dumbasses, and the cops know this. If you're trying to convince the cops that you didn't assault someone, think for a second...would it be better to flip out, start cussing, and acting erratic, or would it be better to remain calm because you know you didn't do it?I am not OP, and I think this just needs to happen to you before you will appreciate it. This witness was sure it was him, only to be wrong. You don’t have any problem with that? I could understand better if he said I think it was him.
Oh I don’t disagree with you about this. I was just talking about the witness and the idea no one should be upset with him.People are dumbasses, and the cops know this. If you're trying to convince the cops that you didn't assault someone, think for a second...would it be better to flip out, start cussing, and acting erratic, or would it be better to remain calm because you know you didn't do it?
who said it was? you are showing your bias there a bit. apologize to the op.Owning “cam newtonesque” suits is not a prerequisite for being black
Dude...you got personally picked out by an eye witness. Its NOT the cops fault. Of course they were going to stop you. Hell... you would do the same thing. Be pissed of at the witness...!I'm walking down the subway steps to get on the train to go home when two cops say "hey you against the wall".. Keep in mind, I'm a bank manager...I have a suit and tie on and I have a bag full of stuff from desk. So at first, I'm thinking "well maybe they think I have drugs" (I'm a young black male, I don't play the race card but it is what it is). BUT the cops walk me upstairs and say "I'm accused of assaulting a man".. It's some guy bleeding from his head but this is what FVKS me up, a "eyewitness" states "he knows for sure it was me".. He pointing at me and everything..it would be one thing if he said "He kind of resembles him or he looks similar".. He straight up said " I saw him assault this man".. So now the West Philly in me comes out and I start snapping.. I'm cussing main man tf out...Now the eyewitness all of a sudden has to leave...Naw, you gonna sit ya ass against the wall until we get this straightened out.. .It's a Philly subway at 8pm and I have a suit and tie on, how the hell you get me confused with anybody?????.. The thing that saved me was when the cops initially stopped me I was on the phone.. I showed the cops I was on the phone for 40mins, how could I assault him? Why would I assault him, I never seen the victim a day in my life.. Eventually I was let go but is it anyway I can press charges or file a complaint about false accusations?? The cops have everyone's info
Ewwwww….Burns me up Fella. Hope you are able to at least file a complaint. Something on file to remind those rectum hats they made a mistake. Good luck!I'm walking down the subway steps to get on the train to go home when two cops say "hey you against the wall".. Keep in mind, I'm a bank manager...I have a suit and tie on and I have a bag full of stuff from desk. So at first, I'm thinking "well maybe they think I have drugs" (I'm a young black male, I don't play the race card but it is what it is). BUT the cops walk me upstairs and say "I'm accused of assaulting a man".. It's some guy bleeding from his head but this is what FVKS me up, a "eyewitness" states "he knows for sure it was me".. He pointing at me and everything..it would be one thing if he said "He kind of resembles him or he looks similar".. He straight up said " I saw him assault this man".. So now the West Philly in me comes out and I start snapping.. I'm cussing main man tf out...Now the eyewitness all of a sudden has to leave...Naw, you gonna sit ya ass against the wall until we get this straightened out.. .It's a Philly subway at 8pm and I have a suit and tie on, how the hell you get me confused with anybody?????.. The thing that saved me was when the cops initially stopped me I was on the phone.. I showed the cops I was on the phone for 40mins, how could I assault him? Why would I assault him, I never seen the victim a day in my life.. Eventually I was let go but is it anyway I can press charges or file a complaint about false accusations?? The cops have everyone's info
🤔who said it was? you are showing your bias there a bit. apologize to the op.
This. The amount of dependency our Justice system has on eye witnesses and human memory is kind of crazy, especially when you consider that some testimony from eye witnesses come well after the event occurred. but I reckon there’s not much can be done about it.Eyewitnesses are nearly useless. Humans are really bad at identifying strangers, especially when they were stressed, and especially when the stranger was a different race.
Wait what? You heard the husband and wife say”we’re gonna find this guy guilty”? Or that “we protect our community against obvious convicts”?Up until I was in the final selection for a gang member who was charged with 2 separate murders 10 days apart and unrelated, I felt pretty good about even GOOD people respecting the law and generally doing the right thing. This was roughly 17 years ago.
I made the comment on my jury questionnaire that I am biased against a known gang member and with a known criminal history. (This of course got me dismissed.)
But what blew my mind, in my same pool of folks, was a husband and wife who had different last names who talked their way onto the jury to make sure he was found guilty. I was just stunned how they were both selected and 1 of them was a “community organizer”. They were jury professionals if you will. Had done 15-20 trials.
Here’s a significant case and the system was rigged somehow. And the guy was totally guilty as hell. But from the get go, people who weren’t even involved set the result.
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OMG….. his brother tried to kill cops in 2015, shocker!!
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Can‘t understand this perspective for the life of me. You belong to the safest, most secure demographic in America. Don’t do or say stupid things and you’ll be fine.I'm a white guy, but not only am I worried about everything I say, but also where I go.
JMO, but you'd have to figure out their intent. They were going out of their way to help someone, or they may have been trying to cover for someone else. Without knowing their intention, it's impossible to judge.Oh I don’t disagree with you about this. I was just talking about the witness and the idea no one should be upset with him.
I disagree.JMO, but you'd have to figure out their intent. They were going out of their way to help someone, or they may have been trying to cover for someone else. Without knowing their intention, it's impossible to judge.
They did not directly say it that way. It was just some of the comments made as we were waiting to be questioned.Wait what? You heard the husband and wife say”we’re gonna find this guy guilty”? Or that “we protect our community against obvious convicts”?
I'm walking down the subway steps to get on the train to go home when two cops say "hey you against the wall".. Keep in mind, I'm a bank manager...I have a suit and tie on and I have a bag full of stuff from desk. So at first, I'm thinking "well maybe they think I have drugs" (I'm a young black male, I don't play the race card but it is what it is). BUT the cops walk me upstairs and say "I'm accused of assaulting a man".. It's some guy bleeding from his head but this is what FVKS me up, a "eyewitness" states "he knows for sure it was me".. He pointing at me and everything..it would be one thing if he said "He kind of resembles him or he looks similar".. He straight up said " I saw him assault this man".. So now the West Philly in me comes out and I start snapping.. I'm cussing main man tf out...Now the eyewitness all of a sudden has to leave...Naw, you gonna sit ya ass against the wall until we get this straightened out.. .It's a Philly subway at 8pm and I have a suit and tie on, how the hell you get me confused with anybody?????.. The thing that saved me was when the cops initially stopped me I was on the phone.. I showed the cops I was on the phone for 40mins, how could I assault him? Why would I assault him, I never seen the victim a day in my life.. Eventually I was let go but is it anyway I can press charges or file a complaint about false accusations?? The cops have everyone's info
Sorry…I have corrected the message. No I don’t have a problem with it if he sincerely believed it was the OP. As many have stated, eyewitness testimony is largely inaccurate but in that scenario, sounds like it went as it should have.I am not OP, and I think this just needs to happen to you before you will appreciate it. This witness was sure it was him, only to be wrong. You don’t have any problem with that? I could understand better if he said I think it was him.
That being the case, I would leave it alone. It sounds like the witness probably has a better case against you then you do against him. Generally, threating someone for making a mistake is frowned upon.The only thing I'm worried about is.. everyone was recording the situation and I was snapping on the eyewitness using foul language...lets just say "ninja, I will f u up" lol... I dont think it will go viral but due to my position, it could be a issue
Thanks for sharing. We are learning so much.Dam man.
Everytime you get approach questioned by an officer of the law
Regardless of color sex age or stupidity
You have to yes sir no sir yes ma'am no ma'am how high you want me to jump attitude.
That west Philly atti is what gets you in trouble-
Not skin color.
Smart White people get on their hands and knees and begs for forgiveness.
And does whatever the cops ask or answers whatever the question is.
Total respect
They are just doing their jobs.
If you are innocent you will be freed eventuallyand the nicer you are the quicker you can go home.
He said he did not blame the cops at all, he blamed the witness.Dude...you got personally picked out by an eye witness. Its NOT the cops fault. Of course they were going to stop you. Hell... you would do the same thing. Be pissed of at the witness...!
Sorry you had to go through that OP.
While we’re sharing stories, I was almost kicked out of school about a week after I arrived on campus. Some frat guys said they “witnessed” me key an RA’s car. Turns out one of them keyed the car himself and had his buddies lie about it because his girlfriend was interested in me (and vice versa TBH).
But I was on my way out after meeting with the University Police until she convinced him/them to recant. I was 18 at the time, with no idea of what was happening or how close I came to having my life screwed up over petty jealousy.
Couldn’t close the deal, but it was probably a condition my parole.Did you at least make the sects with her? How was it? Please be vivid
I am truly and deeply sorry, Sir.I'm walking down the subway steps to get on the train to go home when two cops say "hey you against the wall".. Keep in mind, I'm a bank manager...I have a suit and tie on and I have a bag full of stuff from desk. So at first, I'm thinking "well maybe they think I have drugs" (I'm a young black male, I don't play the race card but it is what it is). BUT the cops walk me upstairs and say "I'm accused of assaulting a man".. It's some guy bleeding from his head but this is what FVKS me up, a "eyewitness" states "he knows for sure it was me".. He pointing at me and everything..it would be one thing if he said "He kind of resembles him or he looks similar".. He straight up said " I saw him assault this man".. So now the West Philly in me comes out and I start snapping.. I'm cussing main man tf out...Now the eyewitness all of a sudden has to leave...Naw, you gonna sit ya ass against the wall until we get this straightened out.. .It's a Philly subway at 8pm and I have a suit and tie on, how the hell you get me confused with anybody?????.. The thing that saved me was when the cops initially stopped me I was on the phone.. I showed the cops I was on the phone for 40mins, how could I assault him? Why would I assault him, I never seen the victim a day in my life.. Eventually I was let go but is it anyway I can press charges or file a complaint about false accusations?? The cops have everyone's info
Who blamed the cops??Dude...you got personally picked out by an eye witness. Its NOT the cops fault. Of course they were going to stop you. Hell... you would do the same thing. Be pissed of at the witness...!