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An open letter to the NFL players,


You graduated high school in 2011. Your teenage years were a struggle.

You grew up on the wrong side of the tracks. Your mother was the leader of the family and worked tirelessly to keep a roof over your head and food on your plate. Academics were a struggle for you and your grades were mediocre at best. The only thing that made you stand out is you weighed

225 lbs and could run 40 yards in 4.2 seconds while carrying a football.

Your best friend was just like you, except he didn’t play football.

Instead of going to football practice after school, he went to work at McDonalds for minimum wage. You were recruited by all the big colleges and spent every weekend of your senior year making visits to universities where coaches and boosters tried to convince you their school was best.

They laid out the red carpet for you. Your best friend worked double shifts at Mickey D’s. College was not an option for him. On the day you signed with Big State University, your best friend signed paperwork with his Army recruiter. You went to summer workouts. He went to basic training.

You spent the next four years living in the athletic dorm, eating at the training table. You spent your Saturdays on the football field, cheered on by adoring fans. Tutors attended to your every academic need. You attended class when you felt like it. Sure, you worked hard. You lifted weights, ran sprints, studied plays, and soon became one of the top football players in the country. Your best friend was assigned to the 101st Airborne Division. While you were in college, he deployed to Iraq once and Afghanistan twice. He became a Sergeant and led a squad of 19 year old soldiers who grew up just like he did. He shed his blood in Afghanistan and watched young American's give their lives, limbs, and innocence for the USA.


You went to the NFL combine and scored off the charts. You hired an agent and waited for draft day. You were drafted in the first round and your agent immediately went to work, ensuring that you received the most money possible. You signed for $16 million although you had never played a single down of professional football. Your best friend re-enlisted in the Army for four more years. As a combat tested sergeant, he will be paid

$32,000 per year.


You will drive a Ferrari on the streets of South Beach. He will ride in the back of a Blackhawk helicopter with 10 other combat loaded soldiers.

You will sleep at the Ritz. He will dig a hole in the ground and try to sleep. You will “make it rain” in the club. He will pray for rain as the temperature reaches 120 degrees.


On Sunday, you will run into a stadium as tens of thousands of fans cheer and yell your name. For your best friend, there is little difference between Sunday and any other day of the week. There are no adoring fans.

There are only people trying to kill him and his soldiers. Every now and then, he and his soldiers leave the front lines and “go to the rear” to rest. He might be lucky enough to catch an NFL game on TV. When the National Anthem plays and you take a knee, he will jump to his feet and salute the television. While you protest the unfairness of life in the United States, he will give thanks to God that he has the honor of defending his great country.


To the players of the NFL: We are the people who buy your tickets, watch you on TV, and wear your jerseys. We anxiously wait for Sundays so we can cheer for you and marvel at your athleticism. Although we love to watch you play, we care little about your opinions until you offend us. You have the absolute right to express yourselves, but we have the absolute right to boycott you. We have tolerated your drug use and DUIs, your domestic violence, and your vulgar displays of wealth. We should be ashamed for putting our admiration of your physical skills before what is morally right. But now you have gone too far. You have insulted our flag, our country, our soldiers, our police officers, and our veterans. You are living the American dream, yet you disparage our great country. I am done with NFL football and encourage all like minded Americans to boycott the NFL as well.

National boycott of the NFL for Sunday November 12th, Veterans Day Weekend. Boycott all football telecast, all fans, all ticket holders, stay away from attending any games, let them play to empty stadiums. Pass this post along to all your friends and family. Honor our military, some of whom come home with the American Flag draped over their coffin.
 
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Hi Mom:

I absolutely respect your families' sacrifice and appreciate what all our troops do for our country. I'm sure that you are a fine person.

Even good people can be wrong, and you are way off base here. As has been stated many, many, many times. This protest is about social justice. Namely, the NFL players that are doing this feel that people of African American descent do not receive the same treatment from law enforcement. You can make an argument either way whether this is true or not and I'm not bothering with pros and cons here. But to say that NFL players kneeling for the National Anthem is insulting the troops and flag is like saying Rosa Parks was protesting public transportation. It is neither the intent nor reality of this protest. Anyone who has ever played football knows this. My team always took a knee when we prayed before every game. I assure you we weren't insulting God. In football, you take a knee to pray, to get extended info from coaches, and most of all at the end of the game/practice when you are worn out or hurt and simply can't stand anymore. In NO CASE is taking a knee in football seen as a sign of disrespect.

Although the following is a guess, it's probably a good one. I'd be willing to bet a fair amount that you are a Trump supporter. So I've a question for you. Where was your open letter of outrage when Trump slammed a true American Hero in John McCain? Did you write one when Trump made fun of a Muslim family who, like you, lost a son in combat in support of his country? Yet when this man, who has OPENLY and REPEATEDLY insulted our troops and vets while filing for 5 wavers to avoid service himself, points out that some NFL guys are kneeling during the National Anthem, NOW you're upset?

Again, I appreciate all that our troops do and support them unconditionally. Personally, I wouldn't have chosen the method of protest that the NFL players did, but that's their call and not yours or mine. I agree that a MINORITY of NFL players take their lives for granted and can generally be described as asses, but I'd also suggest that for every player like that, there are two or three that give back to the community and do lots of charity work.

Finally, I'd like to suggest that you are being manipulated by a man that doesn't give a crap about our troops one way or the other. He's intentionally creating these situations to distract you from what else is going on.
 
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Hi Mom:

I absolutely respect your families' sacrifice and appreciate what all our troops do for our country. I'm sure that you are a fine person.

Even good people can be wrong, and you are way off base here. As has been stated many, many, many times. This protest is about social justice. Namely, the NFL players that are doing this feel that people of African American descent do not receive the same treatment from law enforcement. You can make an argument either way whether this is true or not and I'm not bothering with pros and cons here. But to say that NFL players kneeling for the National Anthem is insulting the troops and flag is like saying Rosa Parks was protesting public transportation. It is neither the intent nor reality of this protest. Anyone who has ever played football knows this. My team always took a knee when we prayed before every game. I assure you we weren't insulting God. In football, you take a knee to pray, to get extended info from coaches, and most of all at the end of the game/practice when you are worn out or hurt and simply can't stand anymore. In NO CASE is taking a knee in football seen as a sign of disrespect.

Although the following is a guess, it's probably a good one. I'd be willing to bet a fair amount that you are a Trump supporter. So I've a question for you. Where was your open letter of outrage when Trump slammed a true American Hero in John McCain? Did you write one when Trump made fun of a Muslim family who, like you, lost a son in combat in support of his country? Yet when this man, who has OPENLY and REPEATEDLY insulted our troops and vets while filing for 5 wavers to avoid service himself, points out that some NFL guys are kneeling during the National Anthem, NOW you're upset?

Again, I appreciate all that our troops do and support them unconditionally. Personally, I wouldn't have chosen the method of protest that the NFL players did, but that's their call and not yours or mine. I agree that a MINORITY of NFL players take their lives for granted and can generally be described as asses, but I'd also suggest that for every player like that, there are two or three that give back to the community and do lots of charity work.

Finally, I'd like to suggest that you are being manipulated by a man that doesn't give a crap about our troops one way or the other. He's intentionally creating these situations to distract you from what else is going on.
Took comment about 1% out when he realized that included most pro football players-
 
Hi Mom:

I absolutely respect your families' sacrifice and appreciate what all our troops do for our country. I'm sure that you are a fine person.

Even good people can be wrong, and you are way off base here. As has been stated many, many, many times. This protest is about social justice. Namely, the NFL players that are doing this feel that people of African American descent do not receive the same treatment from law enforcement. You can make an argument either way whether this is true or not and I'm not bothering with pros and cons here. But to say that NFL players kneeling for the National Anthem is insulting the troops and flag is like saying Rosa Parks was protesting public transportation. It is neither the intent nor reality of this protest. Anyone who has ever played football knows this. My team always took a knee when we prayed before every game. I assure you we weren't insulting God. In football, you take a knee to pray, to get extended info from coaches, and most of all at the end of the game/practice when you are worn out or hurt and simply can't stand anymore. In NO CASE is taking a knee in football seen as a sign of disrespect.

Although the following is a guess, it's probably a good one. I'd be willing to bet a fair amount that you are a Trump supporter. So I've a question for you. Where was your open letter of outrage when Trump slammed a true American Hero in John McCain? Did you write one when Trump made fun of a Muslim family who, like you, lost a son in combat in support of his country? Yet when this man, who has OPENLY and REPEATEDLY insulted our troops and vets while filing for 5 wavers to avoid service himself, points out that some NFL guys are kneeling during the National Anthem, NOW you're upset?

Again, I appreciate all that our troops do and support them unconditionally. Personally, I wouldn't have chosen the method of protest that the NFL players did, but that's their call and not yours or mine. I agree that a MINORITY of NFL players take their lives for granted and can generally be described as asses, but I'd also suggest that for every player like that, there are two or three that give back to the community and do lots of charity work.

Finally, I'd like to suggest that you are being manipulated by a man that doesn't give a crap about our troops one way or the other. He's intentionally creating these situations to distract you from what else is going on.

I hate Trump and can't stand these "protests" either. Black people are searching to try and stay a victim instead of stepping into the reality they are as free and blessed as anyone that is an American.

I've not watched any nfl game except when DW4 is on in my area. Even then I turn the channel when they aren't on offense.

Why don't these players protest the slaughter of hundreds of blacks every year in Chicago? Why aren't they protesting against the poverty that so many choose to live in? Protest something real. Then I might care.
 
Hi Mom:

I absolutely respect your families' sacrifice and appreciate what all our troops do for our country. I'm sure that you are a fine person.

Even good people can be wrong, and you are way off base here. As has been stated many, many, many times. This protest is about social justice. Namely, the NFL players that are doing this feel that people of African American descent do not receive the same treatment from law enforcement. You can make an argument either way whether this is true or not and I'm not bothering with pros and cons here. But to say that NFL players kneeling for the National Anthem is insulting the troops and flag is like saying Rosa Parks was protesting public transportation. It is neither the intent nor reality of this protest. Anyone who has ever played football knows this. My team always took a knee when we prayed before every game. I assure you we weren't insulting God. In football, you take a knee to pray, to get extended info from coaches, and most of all at the end of the game/practice when you are worn out or hurt and simply can't stand anymore. In NO CASE is taking a knee in football seen as a sign of disrespect.

Although the following is a guess, it's probably a good one. I'd be willing to bet a fair amount that you are a Trump supporter. So I've a question for you. Where was your open letter of outrage when Trump slammed a true American Hero in John McCain? Did you write one when Trump made fun of a Muslim family who, like you, lost a son in combat in support of his country? Yet when this man, who has OPENLY and REPEATEDLY insulted our troops and vets while filing for 5 wavers to avoid service himself, points out that some NFL guys are kneeling during the National Anthem, NOW you're upset?

Again, I appreciate all that our troops do and support them unconditionally. Personally, I wouldn't have chosen the method of protest that the NFL players did, but that's their call and not yours or mine. I agree that a MINORITY of NFL players take their lives for granted and can generally be described as asses, but I'd also suggest that for every player like that, there are two or three that give back to the community and do lots of charity work.

Finally, I'd like to suggest that you are being manipulated by a man that doesn't give a crap about our troops one way or the other. He's intentionally creating these situations to distract you from what else is going on.

You are a clown. An articulate clown.
 
Black people are searching to try and stay a victim instead of stepping into the reality they are as free and blessed as anyone that is an American.
I guess that's the real crux of the matter. You either believe that some degree of discrimination and unequal justice exists or you don't.

Depending on what side a person falls on, I doubt their mind will be changed anytime soon.
 
An open letter to the NFL players,


You graduated high school in 2011. Your teenage years were a struggle.

You grew up on the wrong side of the tracks. Your mother was the leader of the family and worked tirelessly to keep a roof over your head and food on your plate. Academics were a struggle for you and your grades were mediocre at best. The only thing that made you stand out is you weighed

225 lbs and could run 40 yards in 4.2 seconds while carrying a football.

Your best friend was just like you, except he didn’t play football.

Instead of going to football practice after school, he went to work at McDonalds for minimum wage. You were recruited by all the big colleges and spent every weekend of your senior year making visits to universities where coaches and boosters tried to convince you their school was best.

They laid out the red carpet for you. Your best friend worked double shifts at Mickey D’s. College was not an option for him. On the day you signed with Big State University, your best friend signed paperwork with his Army recruiter. You went to summer workouts. He went to basic training.

You spent the next four years living in the athletic dorm, eating at the training table. You spent your Saturdays on the football field, cheered on by adoring fans. Tutors attended to your every academic need. You attended class when you felt like it. Sure, you worked hard. You lifted weights, ran sprints, studied plays, and soon became one of the top football players in the country. Your best friend was assigned to the 101st Airborne Division. While you were in college, he deployed to Iraq once and Afghanistan twice. He became a Sergeant and led a squad of 19 year old soldiers who grew up just like he did. He shed his blood in Afghanistan and watched young American's give their lives, limbs, and innocence for the USA.


You went to the NFL combine and scored off the charts. You hired an agent and waited for draft day. You were drafted in the first round and your agent immediately went to work, ensuring that you received the most money possible. You signed for $16 million although you had never played a single down of professional football. Your best friend re-enlisted in the Army for four more years. As a combat tested sergeant, he will be paid

$32,000 per year.


You will drive a Ferrari on the streets of South Beach. He will ride in the back of a Blackhawk helicopter with 10 other combat loaded soldiers.

You will sleep at the Ritz. He will dig a hole in the ground and try to sleep. You will “make it rain” in the club. He will pray for rain as the temperature reaches 120 degrees.


On Sunday, you will run into a stadium as tens of thousands of fans cheer and yell your name. For your best friend, there is little difference between Sunday and any other day of the week. There are no adoring fans.

There are only people trying to kill him and his soldiers. Every now and then, he and his soldiers leave the front lines and “go to the rear” to rest. He might be lucky enough to catch an NFL game on TV. When the National Anthem plays and you take a knee, he will jump to his feet and salute the television. While you protest the unfairness of life in the United States, he will give thanks to God that he has the honor of defending his great country.


To the players of the NFL: We are the people who buy your tickets, watch you on TV, and wear your jerseys. We anxiously wait for Sundays so we can cheer for you and marvel at your athleticism. Although we love to watch you play, we care little about your opinions until you offend us. You have the absolute right to express yourselves, but we have the absolute right to boycott you. We have tolerated your drug use and DUIs, your domestic violence, and your vulgar displays of wealth. We should be ashamed for putting our admiration of your physical skills before what is morally right. But now you have gone too far. You have insulted our flag, our country, our soldiers, our police officers, and our veterans. You are living the American dream, yet you disparage our great country. I am done with NFL football and encourage all like minded Americans to boycott the NFL as well.

National boycott of the NFL for Sunday November 12th, Veterans Day Weekend. Boycott all football telecast, all fans, all ticket holders, stay away from attending any games, let them play to empty stadiums. Pass this post along to all your friends and family. Honor our military, some of whom come home with the American Flag draped over their coffin.
I think this could be visually and verbally depicted in a 60 second commercial on Sunday. Wonder what big wig is willing to pay to have this aired.
 
I guess that's the real crux of the matter. You either believe that some degree of discrimination and unequal justice exists or you don't.

Depending on what side a person falls on, I doubt their mind will be changed anytime soon.

Not true. I believe there is some degree of discrimination. How is kneeling going to solve it? Discrimination is too broad of a topic to solve. I need goals. Are you wanting more minority police? Are you wanting more police education?

Otherwise your kneeling forever. And I cannot get behind that.
 
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This is what Trump has done and it's terryfying.

For the millionth time, kneeling during the anthem has nothing to do with demeaning or taking for granted what the military does.

It is protesting racism in America. There is not a single line in that ENTIRE rant that acknowledges racism. There is not a SINGLE tweet or response from Trump that acknowledges the protest having to do with racism.

He is diverting the blame to turn the players into the "enemy" while ignoring the primary issue...and the public and TI are falling for it.
 
This is what Trump has done and it's terryfying.

For the millionth time, kneeling during the anthem has nothing to do with demeaning or taking for granted what the military does.

It is protesting racism in America. There is not a single line in that ENTIRE rant that acknowledges racism. There is not a SINGLE tweet or response from Trump that acknowledges the protest having to do with racism.

He is diverting the blame to turn the players into the "enemy" while ignoring the primary issue...and the public and TI are falling for it.

Wrong.

As a veteran, I take it very personally because I have draped that flag over some of the finest Soldiers to have served our country.

Now the players have all the freedom in the world to kneel and protest. It’s their right. but if you think that 75% of veterans don’t take it as a slap in the face of their service, you are sadly mistaken.

When they protest and change the same leaders that destroy communities for decades, then I will walk arm in arm with them.
 
Not true. I believe there is some degree of discrimination. How is kneeling going to solve it? Discrimination is too broad of a topic to solve. I need goals. Are you wanting more minority police? Are you wanting more police education?

Otherwise your kneeling forever. And I cannot get behind that.

https://www.google.com/amp/www.chic...ial-equality-campaign-20170921-story,amp.html

https://www.google.com/amp/ftw.usat...llar-pledge-donations-empower-communities/amp

There are plenty of examples of action that players and people are taking...

the media nor trump will actually discuss the action...
 
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Not true. I believe there is some degree of discrimination. How is kneeling going to solve it? Discrimination is too broad of a topic to solve. I need goals. Are you wanting more minority police? Are you wanting more police education?

Otherwise your kneeling forever. And I cannot get behind that.
Maybe I'm mistaken, but I thought the goal was to bring attention to the issue and encourage discussion. I'm not sure how you address the issue of discrimination without first being able to discuss it and say "OK, I acknowledge your perception. How do we move constructively move forward?"

That succeeded to point, until the narrative was changed to a question of patriotism rather than a social issue.
 
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Not true. I believe there is some degree of discrimination. How is kneeling going to solve it? Discrimination is too broad of a topic to solve. I need goals. Are you wanting more minority police? Are you wanting more police education?

Otherwise your kneeling forever. And I cannot get behind that.
Your mom has been kneeling forever, and I did get behind that.
 
So what about people watching at home...do they have to stand up, take their hats off, put their hands on hearts during a televised version of the National Anthem? If not, why not? What about people linking arms during the anthem? Is that disrespectful? Waiting in the tunnel while it is playing? Is that more or less disrespectful? The kneeling seems to have everyone's focus but how is kneeling different than any other form of diverting from the standard of standing, removing a hat, and placing a hand over your heart?
 
Wrong.

As a veteran, I take it very personally because I have draped that flag over some of the finest Soldiers to have served our country.

Now the players have all the freedom in the world to kneel and protest. It’s their right. but if you think that 75% of veterans don’t take it as a slap in the face of their service, you are sadly mistaken.

When they protest and change the same leaders that destroy communities for decades, then I will walk arm in arm with them.

Thank you for your service.

Nothing you have said contradicts what I typed.

You and 75% of veterans that take the kneeling as a slap in the face has absolutely nothing to do with why they are kneeling. I don't believe any of the players have anything but the utmost respect for those who die for our country.

Protest by nature is not comfortable. It can't be comfortable or change never happens.
 
I definitely see why current and former members of the military are offended by the protest since it is occurring during the National Anthem. I have to admit it kind of makes me uncomfortable as a proud American. But, and this is a big but, these players are protesting what they see as an unfair treatment of black people by law enforcement and the justice system in this country. The fact that they are rich athletes (might be spoiled, I dont know but I'm sure some are) is irrelevant. They just happen to have to platform to reach a large audience that most normal people dont have. Are we going to hear some random guy on the street talking about justice?

I also dont understand why white people in this country continue to insist that blacks arent being treated differently by police and should just be proud to live in America. As the majority, we arent going to understand their perspective but that doesnt mean it isnt right or shouldnt be listened to. I respect the hell out of law enforcement and the difficult job they have to do every day. However, that doesnt mean there arent problems that need to be addressed.

Protests like this are supposed to be uncomfortable, otherwise nobody would pay attention to them. Everyone just needs to be able to listen to the other side and have a dialogue, not just resort to name calling and divisiveness. This is my biggest problem with our current President, he just attacks everyone that doesnt see things the way he does and fires up his base. The President of the United States should be above that. Just my opinion though...
 
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Thank you for your service.

Nothing you have said contradicts what I typed.

You and 75% of veterans that take the kneeling as a slap in the face has absolutely nothing to do with why they are kneeling. I don't believe any of the players have anything but the utmost respect for those who die for our country.

Protest by nature is not comfortable. It can't be comfortable or change never happens.

The Flag nor anthem have anything with symbols of inequality or whatever the flavor of the week is. Quite opposite in fact supported by the millions of dollars that they are getting paid.

Like I said, I will protest with them if they would address the actual issues that are far more important in my opinion. That is the continued cycle of ignorance in the inner cities. No one wants to talk that because it is a lose lose for the lefts agenda.
 
I definitely see why current and former members of the military are offended by the protest since it is occurring during the National Anthem. I have to admit it kind of makes me uncomfortable as a proud American. But, and this is a big but, these players are protesting what they see as an unfair treatment of black people by law enforcement and the justice system in this country. The fact that they are rich athletes (might be spoiled, I dont know but I'm sure some are) is irrelevant. They just happen to have to platform to reach a large audience that most normal people dont have. Are we going to hear some random guy on the street talking about justice?

I also dont understand why white people in this country continue to insist that blacks arent being treated differently by police and should just be proud to live in America. As the majority, we arent going to understand their perspective but that doesnt mean it isnt right or shouldnt be listened to. I respect the hell out of law enforcement and the difficult job they have to do every day. However, that doesnt mean there arent problems that need to be addressed.

Protests like this are supposed to be uncomfortable, otherwise nobody would pay attention to them. Everyone just needs to be able to listen to the other side and have a dialogue, not just resort to name calling and divisiveness. This is my biggest problem with our current President, he just attacks everyone that doesnt see things the way he does and fires up his base. The President of the United States should be above that. Just my opinion though...

I can’t believe people don’t understand it goes both ways. I’ve had racial slurs thrown at me and threatened because I was white in predominantly black neighborhoods.
 
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Are veterans offended when Americans are improperly killed by law enforcement?

Lol, go join the force and put you life and livelihood at risk daily. Then have people harass you on a daily basis. Oh also make that split second decision to have to kill someone so that you can go home to your family.

There are crappy people in every profession and it isn’t as bad ask you make it out to be.

Stop glorifying criminals like Mike Brown, Freddie Gray, etc... to try to make a point. There is a reason why most officers are acquitted from charges.
 
I definitely see why current and former members of the military are offended by the protest since it is occurring during the National Anthem. I have to admit it kind of makes me uncomfortable as a proud American. But, and this is a big but, these players are protesting what they see as an unfair treatment of black people by law enforcement and the justice system in this country. The fact that they are rich athletes (might be spoiled, I dont know but I'm sure some are) is irrelevant. They just happen to have to platform to reach a large audience that most normal people dont have. Are we going to hear some random guy on the street talking about justice?

I also dont understand why white people in this country continue to insist that blacks arent being treated differently by police and should just be proud to live in America. As the majority, we arent going to understand their perspective but that doesnt mean it isnt right or shouldnt be listened to. I respect the hell out of law enforcement and the difficult job they have to do every day. However, that doesnt mean there arent problems that need to be addressed.

Protests like this are supposed to be uncomfortable, otherwise nobody would pay attention to them. Everyone just needs to be able to listen to the other side and have a dialogue, not just resort to name calling and divisiveness. This is my biggest problem with our current President, he just attacks everyone that doesnt see things the way he does and fires up his base. The President of the United States should be above that. Just my opinion though...

That is a good thoughtful post. I like how it addresses both sides. Often times (most of the time) in this country ppl tend to take a black and white view on issues that are far too complex to boil down to this is evil or it is great. Unfortunately most are just too lazy to give the other side's viewpoint any merit at all and both sides here have great points. Keep up the good fight!
 
Maybe I'm mistaken, but I thought the goal was to bring attention to the issue and encourage discussion.

Encourage discussion between whom? They have definitely increased the discussion, can they stand now?
 
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