I've come to the conclusion that the absolute WRONG thing to do in situations like this is to permanently move the 'victims." Then the 'bad guys' take over more territory. To me, it's like if your roof is leaking so you decide that the fix is to move your couch.
I'm near the point of it should just be a simple mandate:
"You ass-brains stay on this side, and you ass-brains stay on that side. If either of you ass-clowns decides to cross this line, your capital city gets glassed."
If only things were that simple. And in that case, somebody's gotta monitor the line.
(For the record, the above solution is apparently similar to what Al-Assad and Hussein did. And while neither of these guys is to be admired and they were both ass-heads, it did work for the most part........)
I've got no answers for you brother.
You bring up a pretty good point. We can all agree that Al-Assad and Hussein (and I'd add that Tito guy from what used to be Yugoslovia as an even better example) are really bad guys. BUT they had relative peace in their countries by saying exactly what you mention above. You stay here and you stay here. If I have to come and settle you guys down, I'm just going to kill enough people to MAKE you settle down. If that means I have to kill you all, I can do that too. Don't make me come back over there...
The problem is, when someone stops monitoring the line as you say, it goes back to the same old same old. What's the real solution? I honestly have no idea.