IMO it's pretty simple
The history of the word is that it is a word used in a very derogatory manner by white people to demean black people. It was used in a very hateful way for a long time. Well then black people slightly changed the pronunciation of the word and started using it as a term of endearment. There are some white people who thinks this now gives them the right to use the word again. I'm not really sure I understand the logic there
You don't get to use a term in an extremely hateful manner for a long period of time and then get to start using it again when the victims turn around and adopt a variation of that word as their own. Now I know that neither you nor I are old enough to have been around when the N-word originated but it is pretty easy to respect the wishes of our fellow humans who find it offensive.
Friend, I almost always enjoy and respect your opinions.
This one is crap.
I am damn near old enough. My family owned slaves back in the day.
They were treated pretty well, by what I can determine.........but SLAVES????????
No. That ain't good.
Negro was the historical term and became "that word".
That was a sad time for our country.
Slaves have been around since mankind.
Of all colors and races.
Truth is, a person's color is the LEAST important thing about them.
It is absolutely ludicrous to imagine that a term, within one society/country, can mean separate things to separate people............UNLESS YOU DIVIDE THEM BY RACE!
Which, perfectly, perpetuates the problem.
Either the word is unacceptable or not.
The WORD.
Not who is using it.
Get rid of the WORD.
And stop defining people and what they can and can't do......or say......by race.
STOP the damn color definition!
Or expect all of this to continue.