I actually agree with
@MTTiger19 alot on this topic, with the caveat that I think the Patriarchy is very real, that systemic racism is very real, White Privilege is undeniable, and that being "woke" (before MAGA coopted it to be satan's work) is actually really important for White folk in America, to realize the plight of minority cultures in the states.
But Damn, progressives really really screwed this up with the younger generations. Rather than helping them see their privilege, they were told they were the problem- Since birth. Imagine being a young white male, and instead of understanding your privilege to help others and come along side them, these young white males were told they were bad/racist/the problem from birth. Who would ever want to hear that? (Other than evangelicals, ofc, who really love internalized shame in the form of original sin).
We did a massive disservice to gen z and gen alpha young white men by demonizing them, without a framework of the systemic injustices they were unwillingly a part of. It should have been an avenue of empathy for those young white men, but rather it was used to bludgeon them. And they had no idea how or why they were being demonized, because progressives didn't work to show that they aren't the issue, but the systems are.
We've failed these younger generations with shitty messaging, especially the young white males.