I have to ask: Do you want to live in a country free enough to criticize itself, its police, its politicians? Or would you rather live in a society where people are chastised for their lack of blind patriotism because they dare criticize society?
I didn't call Brees a racist. I called him tone deaf, and there is a difference. If you don't understand that kneeling during a national anthem is a statement about inequality, and is seperate from worshipping the military.. I just don't know what to tell you. People have conflated the flag, the anthem with the military and thats just wrong. The military isn't the flag. The flag is bigger than the military will ever be, and they don't get to own it.
People aren't disrespecting you. You just feel disrespected, because you love your country and you want others to love it as well. I love this country. But you've got to understand, its a living thing and is capable of being better.