The best thing I ever learned to do was to not feel an attachment to a party. For me, it was the Republican Party that I had to leave. But even after I distanced myself from them, I still felt defensive when they or their views were attacked. Once I finally let loose of that last little bit of connection, I could sit back and see the utter hypocrisy from both sides and not be hesitant to call out the Pubs or defend a “liberal” position. On 99% of issues that I have a working knowledge of, I can argue for either side. Some say that’s weak but I disagree. I can’t and won’t be linked to either. They are both embarrassing.