If they had kept it private, who would donate? I don't know the man. I have seen his work for years and know he does great work. His friends have asked for help to give him this gift to help him - happens all the time, but I sure don't go off on someone for trying to help a friend in need. Had this not been made public on this forum, there are some of us on here who would not know the situation and not be able to help. Is this life or death? No, of course not. It is an act of kindness for someone in need.
Again, I say, do not give if this situation is not something you want to do - happens everyday. But spouting reasons why - and there are always reasons why - not to do this just seems belittling and an attempt to deride anyone who does. Why do you care what others do for their friends, or in my case, for someone I see as a nice thing to do?
I am done, sorry for the rant and the multiple posts. I know someone will have to have the last word and I will give it to you.