Two things here:
1. Go look at the statistics from almost any state or country that has had a serious COVID-19 outbreak. The actual number of deaths for the past few months is generally signficantly higher than the average number of deaths plus the reported number of COVID-19 deaths. What is more likely - more people just coincidentally died during this period or more people died of COVID-19 but just where never reported or tested?
2. Are we just saying we should let all of the people in assisted living just die because they dont matter? My mother-in-law is in this category and my wife is worried sick about her. What about all of the people over 70 not in assisted living? Both of my parents are in this category and they are isolating themselves as much as possible but I'm worried about them. What about all of the people with underlying health issues - compromised immune systems. cancer patients, obese people, people with heart and lung issues, etc.? I can name 10 people of the top of my head that I am close with that are in this category, and I am very worried about them.
80,000+ people have died of this virus in the past 2 months, and that is with much of the country social distancing for a good portion of that time. You may not like the social distancing rules and think they are government overreach, but you have to agree that keeping people separated reduces the spread of the disease. I agree we need to start opening things up and getting the economy going, but we need to do it smartly and in phases depending on what is going on with the virus. NY City, Chicago, LA and Miami need different rules than Montana and North Dakota. Big industry needs different rules than general offices. And everyone needs to be smart about interacting with groups of people - wear a mask, keep your distance when you can, continue frequent hand washings, etc. It can be done without killing the economy but every big group that disregards these recommendations puts us at risk of future outbreaks.
Its just simple science, but too many people in this country (including the President) have just totally started disregarding anything scientists say.