Its not insecurity, it's my perception. If I was wrong, I apologize.I’ve never, at any point, called people simple minded for being religious. That’s your own insecurity.
Its not insecurity, it's my perception. If I was wrong, I apologize.I’ve never, at any point, called people simple minded for being religious. That’s your own insecurity.
😂😂NY Tiger, hope you’re doing well, Brother!You have three options as I can see it:
1. Be honest and tell them to knock it off, but make sure they know it is coming from you and not your wife. The last thing you want is them perceiving that it is only your wife that has the issue.
2. Send the 3 year old prophet $100 and ask him to do it for you.
3. DM @areeves and get his thoughts. Honestly, we shouldn't be having a religious discussion without him.
I don't have any problems with religion or people who prescribe to religious beliefs. I DO have a problem with some of the tenants espoused by my friends and family who are religious. For example, I have been told that if you don't believe in God/Christ, but have led the most positive, caring, loving, sharing life known to man you will still not get past the pearly gates. I am not sure what everyone else believes, but if the content of your character cannot get you into heaven, but belief in something (or someone) very difficult to prove exists can, that is when I start having logic breakdowns in my head.What it means is you just spent your entire life, the only one you’ve got, dedicated to a falsehood. You made important decisions in your life based on this falsehood, you built your personality around it, you created behaviors and habits in your life around it. You let your entire life be dominated by something that wasn’t real and you’ve passed on this false lifestyle to other people, who will also spend their lives dedicated to something that’s not real.
The biggest issue is hour parents aren't being taught out of the Bible.
All of your family should seek out a Bible believing church.
Heck, read through the Gosples yourself (Matthew, Mark, Luke, John).
I don't have any problems with religion or people who prescribe to religious beliefs. I DO have a problem with some of the tenants espoused by my friends and family who are religious. For example, I have been told that if you don't believe in God/Christ, but have led the most positive, caring, loving, sharing life known to man you will still not get past the pearly gates. I am not sure what everyone else believes, but if the content of your character cannot get you into heaven, but belief in something (or someone) very difficult to prove exists can, that is when I start having logic breakdowns in my head.
So as a test, which one of the following gets into heaven:
1. Proclaimed Christian of extremely poor moral character. Saved and Baptized, just doesn't live the word.
2. Serial killer who accepts Jesus as his savior 6 hrs before lethal injection.
3. Person who doesn't believe but is of the highest moral character with nothing but kindness and love in their hearts.
4. Someone who believes in Buddhism, Judiasm, Hinduism or some other religion that doesn't subscribe to the God/Jesus Christian teachings.
I believe most would agree that #1 & #2 get to heaven, but most would also agree that #3 doesn't. I really have no idea what most Christians think of #4.
After 30 years I left the Lutheran Church because they started conforming to social norms rather than teaching what God, Jesus, and the actual text of the Bible says. Many of the directives and motives coming straight from the Bishop on downward. My parents also left after 64 years.
Wife and I are now Baptists. If you asked me if I would have ever be a Baptist or leave the Lutheran Church 10+ years ago I would have laughed at you.
I am thankful that the Church we now attend regularly tells us to be weary of someone's interpretation or perversions of the Bible to make it fit a certain agenda or lifestyle they have chosen. That's not how it works. You are supposed to conform to God and the Bible without twisting its words. Our Church isn't some radical legalistic place of worship. They simply preach the word of God as the text is written and it doesn't make excuses for when it doesn't fit today's culture.
OP,
I have never heard that nonsense before. If they really are teaching that and even believe it themselves you absolutely need to intervene.
Seriously though, is this like a thing in the area? Or are my parents on their own program and crazy talking? Anyone heard of this stuff?
I’m praying for you. Jesus loves you.Are you concerned about your children being taught this specific belief By your grandparents or being taught christian beliefs in general? I mean, is the idea that a 3 year old went to heaven and is now a prophet really that far fetched relative to the idea that a guy was born of a virgin and rose from the dead after three days? One seems just as likely to have happened as the other.
Never heard of a 3 year old. The Bible talks about fallen angels having sex with women. Nephilim.So, grew up in Anderson did all the standard southern Baptist stuff till I was 18 then left for the military. I believe a large part of it. (Wife grew up in the northeast not religious but complied.) now we have kids that visit SC every year to see my mom and dad. My parents started talking about angels mating with human women and this whole conspiracy to stop the seed of Christ a few years ago. I mostly ignored it. These last few years they have talked about this 3 year old that claims he went to heaven and how he is basically a prophet of the lord. I’m like “A 3 year old?” Really? God chose a 3 year old to bring us the message? Big issue is they are telling my children this is true and I’m not sure I’m ok with that. Wife hates it.
If you believe in this I don’t want to hear your opinion...
I only want to hear from other guys who have had similar issues with families in the local southern Baptist community that moved away and had to cope with evolving beliefs. How do you handle these issues with your families?
(it's all made up)Dude.
That is totally made up BS.
Stop it.
Now.
Any way you have to.
Will pray for you and yours.
Whatever you say.(it's all made up)
Well wouldn't you agree the Bible has been around a long time?(it's all made up)
So, grew up in Anderson did all the standard southern Baptist stuff till I was 18 then left for the military. I believe a large part of it. (Wife grew up in the northeast not religious but complied.) now we have kids that visit SC every year to see my mom and dad. My parents started talking about angels mating with human women and this whole conspiracy to stop the seed of Christ a few years ago. I mostly ignored it. These last few years they have talked about this 3 year old that claims he went to heaven and how he is basically a prophet of the lord. I’m like “A 3 year old?” Really? God chose a 3 year old to bring us the message? Big issue is they are telling my children this is true and I’m not sure I’m ok with that. Wife hates it.
If you believe in this I don’t want to hear your opinion...
I only want to hear from other guys who have had similar issues with families in the local southern Baptist community that moved away and had to cope with evolving beliefs. How do you handle these issues with your families?
So, grew up in Anderson did all the standard southern Baptist stuff till I was 18 then left for the military. I believe a large part of it. (Wife grew up in the northeast not religious but complied.) now we have kids that visit SC every year to see my mom and dad. My parents started talking about angels mating with human women and this whole conspiracy to stop the seed of Christ a few years ago. I mostly ignored it. These last few years they have talked about this 3 year old that claims he went to heaven and how he is basically a prophet of the lord. I’m like “A 3 year old?” Really? God chose a 3 year old to bring us the message? Big issue is they are telling my children this is true and I’m not sure I’m ok with that. Wife hates it.
If you believe in this I don’t want to hear your opinion...
I only want to hear from other guys who have had similar issues with families in the local southern Baptist community that moved away and had to cope with evolving beliefs. How do you handle these issues with your families?
God would send someone to eternal hell simply because they struggle believing? Wow, what a great guyOh, and if we (the religious believers) are wrong, nothing happens. We just wither away as dust. But If they (the unbelievers) are wrong, man hell is going to be an eternal bon fire. Is that really a risk worth taking?
Too many people saw and wrote about Christ including his resurrection. Never saw a writing of a 3 Year old dying and becoming a prophet.Are you concerned about your children being taught this specific belief By your grandparents or being taught christian beliefs in general? I mean, is the idea that a 3 year old went to heaven and is now a prophet really that far fetched relative to the idea that a guy was born of a virgin and rose from the dead after three days? One seems just as likely to have happened as the other.
This would be my suggestion as wellI would only suggest that you tell your parents that unless it is written in the Bible that you would appreciate them not sharing other theories with your children.
Who saw Jesus and wrote about him?Too many people saw and wrote about Christ including his resurrection. Never saw a writing of a 3 Year old dying and becoming a prophet.
You sound like someone that is a thinker.I don't have any problems with religion or people who prescribe to religious beliefs. I DO have a problem with some of the tenants espoused by my friends and family who are religious. For example, I have been told that if you don't believe in God/Christ, but have led the most positive, caring, loving, sharing life known to man you will still not get past the pearly gates. I am not sure what everyone else believes, but if the content of your character cannot get you into heaven, but belief in something (or someone) very difficult to prove exists can, that is when I start having logic breakdowns in my head.
So as a test, which one of the following gets into heaven:
1. Proclaimed Christian of extremely poor moral character. Saved and Baptized, just doesn't live the word.
2. Serial killer who accepts Jesus as his savior 6 hrs before lethal injection.
3. Person who doesn't believe but is of the highest moral character with nothing but kindness and love in their hearts.
4. Someone who believes in Buddhism, Judiasm, Hinduism or some other religion that doesn't subscribe to the God/Jesus Christian teachings.
I believe most would agree that #1 & #2 get to heaven, but most would also agree that #3 doesn't. I really have no idea what most Christians think of #4.
I have a much bigger problem with organized religion than what you described.I don't have any problems with religion or people who prescribe to religious beliefs. I DO have a problem with some of the tenants espoused by my friends and family who are religious. For example, I have been told that if you don't believe in God/Christ, but have led the most positive, caring, loving, sharing life known to man you will still not get past the pearly gates. I am not sure what everyone else believes, but if the content of your character cannot get you into heaven, but belief in something (or someone) very difficult to prove exists can, that is when I start having logic breakdowns in my head.
So as a test, which one of the following gets into heaven:
1. Proclaimed Christian of extremely poor moral character. Saved and Baptized, just doesn't live the word.
2. Serial killer who accepts Jesus as his savior 6 hrs before lethal injection.
3. Person who doesn't believe but is of the highest moral character with nothing but kindness and love in their hearts.
4. Someone who believes in Buddhism, Judiasm, Hinduism or some other religion that doesn't subscribe to the God/Jesus Christian teachings.
I believe most would agree that #1 & #2 get to heaven, but most would also agree that #3 doesn't. I really have no idea what most Christians think of #4.
Such a serious subject you enterGod would send someone to eternal hell simply because they struggle believing? Wow, what a great guy
How many people saw and wrote about the resurrection?Too many people saw and wrote about Christ including his resurrection. Never saw a writing of a 3 Year old dying and becoming a prophet.
There is only One.I have a much bigger problem with organized religion than what you described.
1. Can we agree that God is omniscient?
2. Can we agree that when I was created He knew at that exact second whether I would go to heaven or hell?
3. Did I choose my own mind/intelligence, etc. combined with my own life experiences and upbringing?
4. Can we agree that it seems messed up that I did not choose my own mind nor did I choose my own life experiences that shape that mind?
For this simple reason I would never believe in organized religion. I am not picking on Christianity specifically, but all of them. I think we can all agree that no one knows the answer. I am not saying there is not a God, but I can say with absolute certainty that there is not a Christian, Muslim, Jewish, etc one.
there are numerous non-Christian, Roman historical texts (written by Tactius??? Something like that) that discuss Jesus, specifically his baptism by John the Baptist, his sermon on the mount, entrance into Jerusalem, his outburst at the Temple and his sentence and crucifixion by Ponticus Pilate. Those are historical events .... the whole “son of God” can certainly be debated by some but his existence cannotWho saw Jesus and wrote about him?
It always amazes me.How many people saw and wrote about the resurrection?
I just saw, in writing, in this very thread, an account that a 3 year old went to heaven and is now a prophet. This is a myth that has been passed from OP’s parents to OP to OP’s children and has now been put in writing and spread to the masses. Much like most of what’s in the Bible today.
He said numerous people "saw and wrote about Christ"there are numerous non-Christian, Roman historical texts (written by Tactius??? Something like that) that discuss Jesus, specifically his baptism by John the Baptist, his sermon on the mount, entrance into Jerusalem, his outburst at the Temple and his sentence and crucifixion by Ponticus Pilate. Those are historical events .... the whole “son of God” can certainly be debated by some but his existence cannot
Agreed. Jesus as historical figure is pretty well documented. Now, whether he was the Son of God or a cult-like figure is not.there are numerous non-Christian, Roman historical texts (written by Tactius??? Something like that) that discuss Jesus, specifically his baptism by John the Baptist, his sermon on the mount, entrance into Jerusalem, his outburst at the Temple and his sentence and crucifixion by Ponticus Pilate. Those are historical events .... the whole “son of God” can certainly be debated by some but his existence cannot
Like I said, there are a few Roman texts that mention Jesus from a historical perspective and most certainly his sentence by Ponticus Pilate.He said numerous people "saw and wrote about Christ"
Unless new information is out that I am not aware of, that is not true.
Prefacing again given the nature of the subject and how I troll on here, being sincere.
Me too, was there whenever the doors opened. RA's, choir practice, Sunday School, Sunday morning and night, Wednesday prayer meeting, VBS. etc. Then I moved away to Clemson, Met others who had different childhood brainwashing, thought for myself and then headed over to G'ville with the other guys to stack beer cans in front of BJU and thought that the Central Dance Committee was the most enlightened group on campus. Just make sure your kids are exposed to as much rational thinking as possible and explain to them the difference facts and fantasy. They should dream big and make it happen.That’s basically what my wife said. Its hard though. Went to church 3 times a week for 18 years. Sister is a missionary. Brother in law is a preacher. Difficult conversation. Seriously should I just rip the bandaid?
Yea, I know of those non contemporary accounts.Like I said, there are a few Roman texts that mention Jesus from a historical perspective and most certainly his sentence by Ponticus Pilate.
give it a Google. Not hard to find
Bart Ehrman @ UNC has some compelling views on a lot of this-especially how the early church re-invented the Christ cult movement and how it latched on to the expansion of the Roman Empire. None of the early church took the religious texts literally. The need for literal truth instead of metaphorical truth didn't become mainstream until the enlightenment. By that point, the mystical qualities of the desert fathers, etc had been diminished in favor of using the who's in/who's out of it all as a means of crowd control and after life insurance.there are numerous non-Christian, Roman historical texts (written by Tactius??? Something like that) that discuss Jesus, specifically his baptism by John the Baptist, his sermon on the mount, entrance into Jerusalem, his outburst at the Temple and his sentence and crucifixion by Ponticus Pilate. Those are historical events .... the whole “son of God” can certainly be debated by some but his existence cannot
This is the most obvious troll I've seen to date on this site.So, grew up in Anderson did all the standard southern Baptist stuff till I was 18 then left for the military. I believe a large part of it. (Wife grew up in the northeast not religious but complied.) now we have kids that visit SC every year to see my mom and dad. My parents started talking about angels mating with human women and this whole conspiracy to stop the seed of Christ a few years ago. I mostly ignored it. These last few years they have talked about this 3 year old that claims he went to heaven and how he is basically a prophet of the lord. I’m like “A 3 year old?” Really? God chose a 3 year old to bring us the message? Big issue is they are telling my children this is true and I’m not sure I’m ok with that. Wife hates it.
If you believe in this I don’t want to hear your opinion...
I only want to hear from other guys who have had similar issues with families in the local southern Baptist community that moved away and had to cope with evolving beliefs. How do you handle these issues with your families?
There was a article in Time a few weeks ago about how only 47% of Americans say they belong to a church (mosque or synagogue). Too me that is sad and terrible .... BUT what made the article even more awful was that there was a direct correlation between that decline and the incline in people who say they are more politically active .....Bart Ehrman @ UNC has some compelling views on a lot of this-especially how the early church re-invented the Christ cult movement and how it latched on to the expansion of the Roman Empire. None of the early church took the religious texts literally. The need for literal truth instead of metaphorical truth didn't become mainstream until the enlightenment. By that point, the mystical qualities of the desert fathers, etc had been diminished in favor of using the who's in/who's out of it all as a means of crowd control and after life insurance.
There's something in us that needs religion. We need a myth to unify cultures, etc. (The overarching problem in our country right now is the lack of such a myth.) Religion was a good means to explain why things happened- before we had science to explain how thunder and lightening actually work. And, psychologically- there's a need to believe is some omnipotent entity that's keeping watch over us, because its freaking terrifying to contemplate the fact that we're essentially insignificant bits of dust on rock spinning and tilting and rotating around a dying star in an endless expanse of galaxies.
Talk to your sister &/or brother in law about your discomfort. Inquire about their belief or disbelief in this kind of “addition” to Scripture so you can wrestle through the belief side of this issue.That’s basically what my wife said. Its hard though. Went to church 3 times a week for 18 years. Sister is a missionary. Brother in law is a preacher. Difficult conversation. Seriously should I just rip the bandaid?
Yes. And, I think it’s a bit more complex than you’re acknowledging- and you give religion more credit than I would for bringing communities together- but I agree with the notion that our our approach to politics reflects the decline of religion as a central myth of our culture.There was a article in Time a few weeks ago about how only 47% of Americans say they belong to a church (mosque or synagogue). Too me that is sad and terrible .... BUT what made the article even more awful was that there was a direct correlation between that decline and the incline in people who say they are more politically active .....
Soooooo as a society, we are replacing something that brings people and communities together with something that drives us further and further apart ....