You seem to attach a lot of negativity to sitting with your brother in his hour of judgement, when his wrong is exposed.
I am not in favor of letting murder go unpunished. I do believe that people are accountable for their actions. If my brother is going to spend the rest of his life in jail for killing our Mom so be it. But he is still my brother.
It would be painful to sit near your own brother in his darkest moment. It would be painful to admit you and your brother shared so much and yet he did the unthinkable. I do not equate a court trial to a baseball game. I would not plan on a celebration if my brother got away with murder. But I don't think a Mom or Dad, brother or sister, wife or child is showing weakness or condoning anything to sit there and watch a close relative who did wrong be found guilty. When the gavel bangs down and your brother is found guilty, he is still your brother. Don't lie for him. Don't cheat for him. Don't believe him when he lies.
But it is ok to love your brother in spite of his sin.. It is ok to let him know he is still your brother, or your son, or your Dad, or your Mom.
Or so I think.
Yeah you can think that but I am not taking all day, everyday out of my life, away from my job and my family to sit there and support him or anyone in my family that has gone above and beyond to manipulate, lie, and refuse to acknowledge it.
That’s open support of their situation. I’d let them lay in the bed they made and hope they publicly acknowledged their mistake
Sorry…but even if I was still supporting on Friday…once I heard the GM report I wouldn’t be wasting my days in court